After the national broadcasting and social-network-floods of undeniably great wedding of the Legaspi couple. Surely a benchmark for a dream wedding is established.
I’ll be a hypocrite if I say I don’t envy it. Every man would have wanted to throw and parallel that kind of wedding. – A much better if could.
But c’mon guys! Reality-check lang… If everyone got the same resources that Zoren has, then that kind of wedding is but a common thing. If there is a lesson that we can get or learn from that event it’s not the cost, the mainstream-level, the A-list guests, nor the wedding itself.
I listed some points I got from it.
1. Wedding is Groom’s day too.
Commonly, we see wedding preparation is much done by the bride –it may not be true for all, but it is for most. Why? Because bride feels the importance of the day being united to the man she wanted to share the rest of her life, the same heart is seen in Zoren all along the preparation. Zoren did it all, not just because he wants to show Mina the love the he has for her but because he understands that it is his day too. It is their day… It must be as perfect as possible.
2. Attitude for both.
This is how I see why their relationship works so well… Mina is an example of a woman who submits to her man. (I don’t know them personally. So this comment is as-far-as the broadcasting delivers it.)
“No questions, all trust” this is the attitude of a woman everyman man wants – agree with me guys!
But here is the catch. It’s not a woman thing. Nagging is synonymous with woman. Every woman will check their man, call Him, text him, annoy him in every possible way to get his attention. Why? Because it’s our (Men) Job to get-rid-of it from them, they do this because they need us. Give what they need – Love, Time, Appreciation, Protection, they need a Leader within in your relationship. If we can’t be a leader they will take our place. And we know how woman do it. – This is a biblical formula. No wonder it works perfectly.
3. The Importance of wedding.
The couple amazingly almost perfected their relationship. Why need a wedding for a relationship that surpasses the level of good-relationship than most of married couple?
But still they pursue on it. Mina may not know it but she’s looking forward to it. Getting married is not a mere civil-law or moral compliance. They both understand that this is a union of two and God. They are both Christians but from different denomination. Religion is not an issue here it’s the heart of the couple and the need to be united with God.
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